As I thought about what to write today, I have mixed emotions with those thoughts. My mother passed away in February 2011, so many thoughts of her are going through my mind.
The most important thought is to be sure to:
[12] “Honor your father and your mother, that your days
may be long in the land that the LORD your God is giving you. -Exodus 20:12 [ESV Study Bible]
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I have always understood this Scripture to remain love and respect your parents. You may not agree with them, but you must love, respect and honor them. After all, they brought you into this world and have loved you from the first second of your life.
You've probably heard this said from someone along the way, if not directly from your mother, but it's something I highly recommend. Take the time
NOW to be with your mother. Go visit her. Call her. Do something with her. Send flowers. Send a card for no reason at all. I might add "before it's too late!" And, I don't mean this to be a doomsday thing or negative or trite, but it is one of the most important things you can do with your mother. Take time.
Before my mother became ill, which eventually lead to a stroke and her passing away, we spent countless hours gardening, laughing (many times at something so silly!), having pizza, and countless other things. On my wedding day, she was so proud and happy. These are memories of her I won't forget. And, I am very thankful I spent the time creating the memories because in her stroke, she got to where she didn't know me and I wasn't always the most welcomed guest to her hospital room. Difficult as it was, stressful too, I remembered the memories of Mom.
Her death in 2011 wasn't any easier than it was for anyone else. I had not only lost a Mother, but a dear friend. Memories of life with her, are so valuable and play over and over in my mind. Days like today are difficult because I miss her. I wish she could be here when they honor the Mother's at church this morning. She can't. But, I have great memories of the many times she was and the influence she had on me.
I didn't go out in life to create memories of mom for the day she passes or so that I would feel less guilty after her death. I honored my mother with time. Respect and love!!
I would appreciate reading about your Mother's Day experiences.